Tricky situations
Complaints are stressful for everyone, but they follow a predictable shape. If you work through the five steps below in order, you will almost never get it wrong. The same flow works whether the patient is at the desk, on the phone, or emailing us.
Let them finish. Don't interrupt. Don't defend. Acknowledge the feeling, not the fact.
"I can hear this is really frustrating, I'm sorry you're feeling that way."
You are not agreeing that we did something wrong — you're agreeing that the experience was bad for them. That distinction matters.
Once they've vented, gently ask for details. Take notes as you go.
"So I can get this right — can you walk me through what happened?"
Apologise for the experience, not the fault. Offer one concrete next step and a realistic ETA.
Don't improvise. If you're unsure what you can offer, say "let me check and call you back within the hour" — then do.
Escalate to the office manager, same business day, if the complaint involves any of:
Escalation is not failure. It's the right call.
One line to hand it off cleanly:
"I want to make sure this is handled properly. Let me take your details and have our office manager call you back today."
Every complaint — even the ones that felt minor — gets an incident report the same day. Use the form at /forms/incident-report. Record: